Healing a marriage when there has been infidelity takes teamwork. The infidelity may flag a boundary issue, difficulty with a new stage of family life (such as children or aging), or possibly indicate more chronic factors within the marriage or within one of the spouses. Marital infidelity is often both a problem as well as a symptom for whatever else may be missing or not working within the marriage. On an episode of secrets being exposed over infidelity, a Nigerian lady has shared a very touching story and she needs our help in handling the terrible situation she has found herself. Below is her confession:
“My reason for opening up to the world is because I know there’s someone out there who might need to learn from my mistakes. I also need advice. Please don’t just pass after reading, SAY SOMETHING! My name is Funke Afolabi, from Ondo State Nigeria, and I reside here in Lagos with my husband. I had been married for 15 years, no issue to show for it. I was so frustrated and concerned as I was nearing menopause; but to my amazement, my husband was not so bothered at all. My husband’s family began mounting so much pressure on him to take a second wife, but he refused. This made them to turn the whole table around my neck stating and fuming that I was the cause of their son’s inability to accept marrying another wife who can bear him children… they also concluded that I had held him down to my bidding with some sort of powerful magical spell.
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